Plan to have baby, think finance first

I find out that my hubby wants to think of finance first before having another baby. He keeps thinking that having kids are costly. Well we have Sean and I think he is bored of being alone. I see that hubby thinks of finance often.

I feel like telling him that if he not spending money on the gadgets it will be no problem. He loves gadgets and I think the money is better used to save for kids. Mom-in-law told me he not always listens to her, she is not alone as he is always not listening to me as well.